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Post by helpinghands on Jul 19, 2013 22:53:16 GMT
: IMPORTANT MESSAGE PLEASE READ EVERYONE
Hello Gareth fans
Ever since we set up this site, we have had 2 people working against us and everything we have tried to create here for the fans. Between them these two women have turned certain members so they are too scared to post, sent pms to other members telling them to go to GPG, tweeted for the whole world to see telling people not to come on our site and yet again had a lapse of memory denying it.
We opened the Forum guest lounge to encourage the masses of guests we get to say hi and instead we got the other troublesome member regurgitating utter nonsense and we have had to close it .
One of them was very abusive towards our moderator Carol on Wednesday, upsetting her greatly. We advised her to report on it, we told her she could name the woman, but she said she wouldn't. Well now that woman whom she blocked on Facebook has managed to get to her via her new author page, and this is what she has written to her. Now why Elaine Rollins should know that Carol means her if, as she says, " She didn't do it." and how her friends would warn her when her name was not mentioned really escapes me. This is the best case of "give someone enough rope and they will hang themselves" you are ever likely to see!
I am posting this pm against Carol's wishes, as she doesn't want a fuss, but we have had enough of these two troublemakers, and anything they do in future will be put up in staff speaks, they will be named and shamed because we have had enough of them both! now hopefully our true Gareth fans can enjoy the rest of the forum that these two have done their best to wreck.
this is what she sent to Carol
Elaine Rollins
I purposely didn't even try to speak to anyone in your party to avoid ambarrasment but you couldn't resist creeping round Linda. Just been alerted to all your lies in your report never shouted at you or dragged Linda anywhere in fact her idea to move to the other side as we had a train to catch and I followed her, but you are very good at twisting the truth, you have had plenty of practice and by the way I am not afraid of Keith. I would not lower myself to put petty things in a Gareth report it will put even more people off your fan site. So just grow up. I have a life unlike you and can't be bothered with such drivel.
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Post by Deborah on Jul 19, 2013 23:42:11 GMT
Ohhhhh I get it now.
Sorry H I wasn't quite sure you meant I was trying to get from work and its soooooooo hot.
I didnt know it was Elaine that was being strange I thought it was a fan that was overcome with the heat and was fustrated they were waiting outside and thought Carol was trying to get ahead of the crowd or something and was rude. Cranky hot and bothered.
So let me get this now, that which Carol posted and told us about that was Elaine that was taking on? So how did she come to that conclusion? No names were mentioned. I am really tired here and so hot but by sending that Message wherever she sent it hasn't she just confessed? Plus if she was rushing for the train how did she get the picture with Gareth? That came after it must have because people were waiting for him to arrive outside? If you rush for the train taking your companion with you, you go and rush away , you don't stick around still wait for Gareth get a picture then rush off. Sorry this message from Elaine as it reads doesn't stand up.
Love
Debbie
xxxx
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Post by helpinghands on Jul 20, 2013 0:21:34 GMT
Bravo
You have got that quite right. I feel slightly awkward that I didn't tell you really who it was because Carol asked me not to because of all the upset that you had to deal with when we had the guest lounge fiasco. You never asked me otherwise I would have said I would never have lied to you.
I think you have seen, despite being very hot and bothered and very tired, what we haven't in that message. Its of a very dubious nature. I just don't always understand people. Well I don't understand all this.
Love H xx
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Post by Deborah on Jul 20, 2013 0:39:53 GMT
Oh H I am not bothered that you didn't tell me , I actually don't know if I wanted to know I spose I had a feeling it was her or our friend from the guest lounge. The whole thing was way too cranky for ir not to be. Carol isn't going to be very happy though is she? However I am not disagreeing with this it had to be done, I would have dragged my feet and you know that! You know me too well  We finish each others sentances, know what each other are thinking. I am so weary of all this. How can grown women behave in such a way? Whatever happened to common decency? I don't think either of them can see how Bloody stupid they are making themselves look. Its crystal clear that message is crap its all flaming nonesense. I hope Carol doesn't go mad thats all! Love DJ xxxxxx |
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Post by helpinghands on Jul 20, 2013 0:51:59 GMT
My Lovely lady you are tired, you are losing your usual steadfast calmness .....sorry its too late and its too hot.
I will talk to Carol and deal with this now . My Decision , My problem.
Love H xx
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Post by nicola on Jul 20, 2013 11:07:40 GMT
I am so glad you have decided to expose this woman H. Her friend exposed herself in the guest thread very well recently. We don't want this great forum ruined by them. Now everyone can see what they both are, certainly NOT Gareth fans, just troublemakers! You all , especially Carol have my full support!
Nicola x
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Post by mariaw81 on Jul 20, 2013 18:16:36 GMT
I just want to say no one has stopped or tried to stop me posting on here, also no one has told me to say this, long gone are the days I would do something just because someone had said so, I used to be like that in school. I want to keep out of all this but just wanted to say that just in case you meant me as I don't post.
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Post by Deborah on Jul 20, 2013 23:34:14 GMT
I just want to say no one has stopped or tried to stop me posting on here, also no one has told me to say this, long gone are the days I would do something just because someone had said so, I used to be like that in school. I want to keep out of all this but just wanted to say that just in case you meant me as I don't post. Hi Maria How lovely that you posted anyway We really missed you. You bought such lovely threads over the night we launched this site. You were so happy. We were happy to have you. We know something happened hun after that hun, we know, we know as definate as night follows day and we hold absolute proof and we will use that if we are forced too. You sweatheart are welcome here and our amrs are wide open to welcome you. No one will hurt you here, even if they are trying to hurt us! with love Debbie xxxxx |
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Post by carol on Jul 21, 2013 0:02:56 GMT
Hello Maria, welcome back to us, it's lovely to see you posting. We have missed you and Sarahjane, do you remember your "words to describe Gareth" thread? Well it got lost along the way somewhere without you to take care of it. We have great parties on here, last week we had one for Gareth's birthday, and it would be so nice to have you sharing in all our fun. We have built up this site and our facebook and twitter pages a lot since you stopped posting, and guess what we have Royal approval cos some very special people now follow us on twitter.  I do hope your mum is ok now, and you too hun. love Carol xxx |
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Post by helpinghands on Jul 21, 2013 12:09:41 GMT
Hello Maria, welcome back to us, it's lovely to see you posting. We have missed you and Sarahjane, do you remember your "words to describe Gareth" thread? Well it got lost along the way somewhere without you to take care of it. We have great parties on here, last week we had one for Gareth's birthday, and it would be so nice to have you sharing in all our fun. We have built up this site and our facebook and twitter pages a lot since you stopped posting, and guess what we have Royal approval cos some very special people now follow us on twitter. I do hope your mum is ok now, and you too hun. love Carol xxx Yes I want to add my welcome too Maria, we set up this site for people such as yourself who still wanted message boards.  It's true what Carol has said, we have great fun celebrating Gareth on here, and who could not fail to laugh when our lovely Andrea illustrates her posts with her amazing emoticons. Andrea left us once, but we welcomed her back with open arms, and we do the same to you, because every true Gareth fan is welcome on here, it's just the troublemakers we don't want.  love H xx |
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Post by GPG MY IDOL on Jul 21, 2013 12:41:04 GMT
Hi everyone I feel sad that a post like this has to be on this site, and so sorry that Carol has once again had to take the brunt of this. Carol has always welcomed, helped and supported other fans including the very person who is now hell bent on causing trouble and making a scene in public.I an also someone she has helped on several occasions in the past, we are now great friends but long before I knew her well she was there for me and put herself out just to help me and I know she has helped others too.
Deborah, H, Carol & Q are wonderful people who do what they do to promote and celebrate Gareth and also so fans can share there experiences and have fun on here. It is such a shame that other "fans" need to cause trouble, as it has been said on this site many times before we are here to celebrate the wonderful Gareth Gates who we all admire and adore, and anyone who wants to is welcome but to those who don't ...PLEASE LEAVE US ALONE, DO NOT HARASS US OR OUR MEMBERS ON HERE ON IN PUBLIC
THANK YOU
Love June x
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Post by helpinghands on Jul 21, 2013 14:11:11 GMT
Hi everyone I feel sad that a post like this has to be on this site, and so sorry that Carol has once again had to take the brunt of this. Carol has always welcomed, helped and supported other fans including the very person who is now hell bent on causing trouble and making a scene in public.I an also someone she has helped on several occasions in the past, we are now great friends but long before I knew her well she was there for me and put herself out just to help me and I know she has helped others too. Deborah, H, Carol & Q are wonderful people who do what they do to promote and celebrate Gareth and also so fans can share there experiences and have fun on here. It is such a shame that other "fans" need to cause trouble, as it has been said on this site many times before we are here to celebrate the wonderful Gareth Gates who we all admire and adore, and anyone who wants to is welcome but to those who don't ...PLEASE LEAVE US ALONE, DO NOT HARASS US OR OUR MEMBERS ON HERE ON IN PUBLIC THANK YOU Love June x I COULDN'T HAVE SAID THIS BETTER MYSELF JUNE MANY THANKS. JUNE YOU ARE ALSO A VERY LOYAL MEMBER OF OUR TEAM AND A GREAT CARETAKER OF THE MELTING POT. WE VALUE EVERYTHING YOU DO. LOVE H XX |
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Post by carol on Jul 21, 2013 15:30:11 GMT
First of all I want to say to Debbie and H, I am not upset that you put this thread up, and I understand why you did it. Nicola and June I thank you so much for your support, it means a lot . I have also had phone calls and pms from people who won't post because of the back lash they would receive. God bless you all too!! When I came back from Wimbledon upset, I spoke to H about what had happened, and he advised me to put it as part of my report. He said I could name the woman, but I said "No", my reason for that was if she read the report, only she would know that I meant her, and maybe she would realise her behaviour was out of line, and curb it in the future. Even after that, if she had come to me and said something like " it was a hot day, and I was a bit frazzled, didn't mean to be like that." I would then have put it behind us and moved on. But instead of that, she hunted me down on my facebook page, and sent the pm that H has put in this thread. I do not bear this woman, or any other a grudge, yet she snubs me everywhere I go. I have no idea why? Is it not possible, as we are all Gareth fans to band together to celebrate him? Why does she and her friend do everything they can to sabotage our site and our reputation? Do they even know why themselves? Even now, if they were to show some common decency and respect when we meet in public, just a hallo is good enough if you are not keen on someone isn't it, I would put it behind me and move on.They don't have to like me, but they could be polite. Well anyway thanks for listening to me everyone, I know I have some really good friends since I became a Gareth fan, and I will continue, with the rest of our moderators who all do a fine job, to share everything Gareth with you all. love Carol xxx |
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Post by queenofhearts on Jul 21, 2013 22:32:40 GMT
I too feel sad that a post like this should appear on this site and a lovely person like Carol should have to suffer such abuse like this, when i joined these boards Carol welcomed me with open arms as did June, Deborah and H so that we can all celebrate Gareth together and have fun at the same time. Deborah and H have made these boards for us fans to promote, love and adore the fantastic Gareth Gates and along with myself Carol and June as moderators we hope the fans on here like what we have done on here and that others may join too as they will be welcomed with open arms. But for those who don't want to join please don't come on and make trouble for us by harassing us either in here or in Public we are here for the same thing to celeberate this wonderful man Love Q xxxx |
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Post by garethgemsmum on Jul 21, 2013 23:03:37 GMT
Hi everyone felt i should post on here and say i would welcome Maria back if she should decide to join us on here , i am friends with here as some of you know. I joined these boards when they were first created for us when the old message boards closed down, i was happy posting on here and talking to my friends etc till someone told me not to post on here so i left for awhile, but i made up my own mind to come back as no one tells me what i can and cannot do. And when i did come back i was welcomed with open arms everyone is so warm and friendly and the moderators are always there if help is needed, i have so much fun on here having a laugh and celebrating a wonderful man like Gareth love Andrea xx |
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We finish each others sentances, know what each other are thinking. 
